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September 2010
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The Teenager (15) approached The Spouse about attending a nighttime concert at Summerfest with a friend. The story was that she and her friend would attend the concert and be driven home by her friend's father, who was planning on going to a different concert that same night. From this story, you could reasonably assume three things.
A) There was a plan.
B) The friend's parents were okay with the girls going to Summerfest.
C) The friend's father was going to be on the grounds at the same time as the girls.
Perfectly reasonable, right? It would be unless you know the backstory on The Teenager.
The Teenager tends to do things on the spur of the moment, and most of her "plans" tend to be long on explanations but vague in detail -- this being typical of most teenagers, I'm guessing.
After pressing her for further information, The Spouse and I discovered that
A) There was no real plan.
B) The friend's parents were not all that okay with the girls going to Summerfest.
C) The friend's father did not intend to be at Summerfest until his concert started much later in the evening.
This revelation sent The Spouse into a tizzy -- this being typical of fathers of teenage girls.
So, after further deliberation, it was decided that The Spouse would accompany the girls to the concert. As the Spouse put it, "I trust you girls. It's the drunk hooligans that I don't trust." (As The Spouse holds a third-degree black belt, don't think that will be a problem.)
So, this is how The Spouse ended up paying for a concert ticket for a band that he has never heard of in order to protect his not-so-little-anymore girl and her friend from Summerfest drunkards. That my friends is fatherly love.
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13 Comments
Santas Elf - Jun 29, 2009 6:47 PM
Either that or a clever way to get down to Summerfest to drink a few pints himself while the kids were doing the concert.
Kudos to your spouse!
clk_53045 - Jun 30, 2009 1:08 AM
Summerfest is creating it's own nightly discourse around here, too. (Wait, now why am I up at 1 am?)
MyTwoCents - Jun 30, 2009 3:54 PM
Lord Brookfield - Jul 02, 2009 10:19 AM
I dont think the spouse deserves any kudos. The girls obviously wanted to go to get hammered.
roxsuson - Jul 02, 2009 10:59 AM
I don't think it's "obvious" at all that the girls wanted to get "hammered". You don't know my stepdaughter or her friend. They wanted to go to a concert, and Summerfest books outstanding musical acts. Not having been to a nighttime concert there, the girls' naivete lies in the fact that they think a concert at Summerfest is just a concert, when in fact it is not, for some of the reasons you pointed out. That is where the experience of an adult parent, who actually is aware of some of the problems that Summerfest can present, comes into play.
As parents of teenagers know, it is difficult to gauge how much independence to give a teen. There are parents out there who probably would have let the girls go and not given it another thought. The Spouse (a non-drinker) attending with the girls was an appropriate compromise. They still get to attend the concert, and a parent is there to keep an eye out for them.
Santas Elf - Jul 03, 2009 10:03 AM
Oh my, I couldn't have guessed.
I believe that at this point the only way out of the conundrum, Ms. Wannabe, would be for you to attend the concert with the girls. Then, after the whole crowd gets hammered, Spouse pulls up, scoops you all into the safety of the SUV, and motors the group home for breakfast bloody marys.
Cold be the start of a lovely family tradition!
Santas Elf - Jul 03, 2009 10:08 AM
Santas Elf - Jul 04, 2009 11:45 PM
Most of us old folks really enjoy watching the next generation raising their teens. Sort of like watching a younger sibling getting braces!
Lord Brookfield - Jul 09, 2009 11:48 AM
roxsuson - Jul 09, 2009 4:38 PM
But I can't let you disrespect my stepdaughter or her friend. Let's end it at that.
Lord Brookfield - Jul 10, 2009 11:34 AM
Lord Brookfield - Jul 10, 2009 11:51 AM
Santas Elf - Jul 18, 2009 1:39 PM
You are not the only one benefiting from LB's vast intellect and wide ranging experience.
I believe that there is a general consensus that LB is probably a 13 or 14 year old kid whose enjoying dad's laptop for summer vacation. Hopefully, we'll have a respite when he goes off to scout camp to study Culicinae for a couple of weeks.